Pregnancy Tests and Unanswered Questions

Well, the first test of, possible, four pregnancy tests was Thursday October 22, 2009.

I went in for the 10 minute appointment.

It is amazing how much, on the clinic side, I do not know. They continue to act as though this is the intended mom's baby, and it is, but they forget that it is my pregnancy. I have not been pregnant this way before. I have been pregnant twice but both times it was all God and His natural way. This way, needing the doctors and many medicines to make it happen, leaves me with a lot of questions.

They called her and told her I was pregnant and what I am to do next. Shouldn't they tell me also????

The women that have been in this for a time, know what is needed and when and how. Just like the time I went to learn about my first medicine, when the nurse explained to the intended mother "this is the same protocal as last time", possibly not realizing that this is the first time for me. I have never had no "Protocal" for getting pregnant other than "Baby Dancing". I need to know what to do so that I don't mess this up. I need to know why and when I am doing things. I need to know when I can start doing the things I used to. There are restictions on my physical activities, low excercise...

I just need the clinic to include me in the information. Am I asking to much????