Last month I met an IM, after several emails. The meeting was great, I thought. We ended with sharing our phone numbers and ... I waited a week to hear back from her, I did not want to be TOO pushy. I reached out to check in and received a response back with "we met with another surrogate and went with her". I wished them luck.
Yesterday I got a text from the IM wondering if I would consider working with them, the other surrogate did not work out for reasons I will not mention. I texted back. I tried to email three times last night everytime I started an email my family had something I had to do. I finally sent the email today.
I am so sorry for these parents. It is hard enough to hear that you are not able to "have" a child/ren without someone's help, but then you put your hopes in another person and it doesn't work out. How should they feel? At our meeting this IM had dreams of a Christmas baby. Is that still a possibility?
I am waiting to hear back. I do not know if they are talking to someone else. I did not know last time. I am willing to talk about a match. I know it is so hard to feel 100% secure in trusting another person, that you have "just" met, with your chance of having a baby. This is hard...
Please pray for this couple that are dreaming of a little one to fill their hearts, lives, and moments. Pray that if I am to help them I can with God's blessing and guidance. Pray that if I am not the surrogate to help them God directs them to each other, in His timing.
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